By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.

Today is a day to remember! Our publisher officially released our multiple award-winning book in paperback! Our labor of love – our heart’s work for the past 26+ years – has come to fruition in a format that will reach even more people. read more

There are many reasons why people get divorced. This article explores some of the most common reasons that cause the end of a marriage.


It will come as no surprise that adultery is an extremely common reason for divorce. However, research shows that many people are willing to forgive someone for cheating once. If the behaviour is common though, that often spells the end of a marriage. Adultery results in a lack of trust within a relationship. read more

We thought we had heard everything until this!

We heard recently that the Reverend Ed Young of the Fellowship Church in Grapevine, Texas told his congregation during a Sunday worship service that he wanted married couples in his congregation to have sex all week long. He says that God may have rested on the seventh day, but he wanted married couples in his church to have sex every day for a week! read more

By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.

As our many readers know, we have been studying successful marriage and relationships for nearly three decades. And frankly, one of the most important questions we get asked is, How will I know if this is true love? The answer is simpler than you think. In the end, there are Seven Tests of True Love. read more

By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.

Oh, the times, they are a-changing! This refrain is from a very famous Peter, Paul, and Mary song. And the truth is, people are finding love in different ways than they did is year’s past. Online dating is a reality today. read more

By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.

Here is an undeniable truth about life – actions speak louder than words! We know, you’ve heard this all before! But the truth is, you can, and must, judge a man by his actions and not by his words! read more

Lack or breakdown of communication is the primary reasons marriages fail. Couples have to learn to talk and listen to each other if they desire a solid marriage.

Communication, most especially verbal is what makes us different from other animals and that is the foundation of all human relationship.
Two people cannot walk together except they agree and they can’t agree except they TALK. read more

Over the past 30 years, we have learned much about what makes great marriages tick – about what makes them successful. Even in spite of ominous odds from time to time, the best marriages survive and thrive, and we know why!

They survive and thrive because they are committed to the Core Values present in all great marriages and successful loving relationships. Here they are in a nutshell. read more

Is your experience of love that it is scarce and limited?

“Thousands of candles can be lighted from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened. Love never decreases by being shared. ~Chinese Proverb read more

At the end of every interview we conduct with happily and successfully married couples we ask the most powerful question of our interview protocol – Can you imagine life without your spouse?

The question always draws tears to the eyes of the couple we are interviewing. We have asked them a question they have repressed. It is a question no loving couple wants to think about. The answer is, however, nearly always the same – No! read more

By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.

We have witnessed time and time again marriages in which one or both partners failed to understand the importance of being alone, not only for themselves, but for their spouse as well. read more

By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.

Don’t you just hate bullies! They try to get what they want by bullying you, by intimidating you, and by making you feel inferior to them. If you are like us, this NEVER works! Yet, so many good folks succumb to the bully. And we wonder why? read more

Discover the difference between needs coming from emotional dependency and authentic needs that we have within a relationship.
Every few weeks I do a free webinar. People can listen on their computers or on the phone; they can write in asking questions or they can ask me directly on the phone. Here is one of the questions a woman – I will call her Susan – asked in a webinar on emotional dependency:

“When we are in a relationship and we have made our needs clear to our partner, is hanging on in the hope they will follow through with promises to meet our needs a sign of emotional dependency?” read more

Not getting enough attention, spouse cheated, unable to talk about it, feeling uncertain about the future and losing trust. Among these symptoms, many people who are going through this tough situation are wishing for it all to go back to the way it once was.

But now you must stop and consider this, do you really want to turn back the time before this affair has ever happened and would this even be possible? read more

Maybe you are in a difficult situation now in your marriage and you want to save your failing relationship but you do not know how. In any relationship, there are ups and downs but usually, it is hard to deal with the rough times. Do not lose hope because there are proven ways of getting your marriage back on track.

Here are some tips in getting your marriage back on track: read more

Do you like one of the girls on your Facebook friend’s list? Here are five simple hints on how to communicate with a girl on Facebook, and make her to like you back.

Having friend with girls that you like is so much easier due to the emergence of several social networking sites. One of these popular networking sites is Facebook, where chatting and emailing has been combined, making it an ideal place to get to know girls. Here is some of the best advice to help you with how to talk to a girl on Facebook. read more

Cybersex is the use of electronic communications for sexual diversion and includes email, texting, and internet porn. The American Bar Association cites that in 2011 a whopping 50% of the divorces it handles have cybersex implicated in the couple’s demise. The harm and emotional wreckage to the partner (co-addict) are enormous.

As a result of cybersex, a couple’s marriage is compromised and children within the home are harmed in numerous ways. They suffer from the abandonment of both parents: one is obsessed with sex and the partner is obsessed with the sex addict. In many cases, the children don’t receive the care, time and attention they need and deserve. As a consequence, this abandonment will affect their ability to forge healthy relationships as adults. read more

You can demonstrate your love for the special woman in your life in a number of small ways.

Flowers and candy on special occasions are always nice but you can also surprise a woman by offering smaller gestures on a daily basis. She will appreciate your thoughtfulness and understand that you are trying to show her how much she means to you. read more

Romance is so very important to the wellbeing, health and the wealth Your relationship will produce, because it is the credit that you build-up in your partners emotional bank account that is specially kept, just for you. That is human we all to that.

Forgiveness and appreciation for who you are and who you are becoming, leniency for where you are still strengthening your skills and developing your abilities comes just so much easier when your account is in the green. read more

It’s easy for me to share 10 romantic dinner ideas with you, because I cook this way almost every night. I only cook what I’m inspired to create, and my wife, Heather has always been the muse behind my creativity, from culinary college until today.

The most romantic meals have three elements; they are visually appealing, they are pleasing to the palate, and they include aphrodisiac ingredients for their effects, or just for conversation value. read more

Even though you may think that divorce is certain this is not always the case. In fact, there is a very large success rate from people who have taken action and applied the methods that professionals provide for the soul purpose to stop divorce.

1. Stop feeling sorry for yourself.

No one likes to be around someone who is feeling sorry for themselves it is somehow viewed as a selfish act. Kind of like someone being ungrateful. read more

To go out on a date is not only exciting and fun, but it can also be such a nerve wracking situation sometimes. Admit it or not, single men must have enough knowledge and ideas as to where to go on dates.

Men should never run out of ideas where to take their dates and they must know how to keep a conversation alive. It can be a tough thing to do, but it is worth it if you have finally succeeded in pursuing your date. Of course, first dates are important, but you should not take for granted the second dates. read more

Both men and women are in truth, emotional creatures. Fellas, don’t front, there’s a soft spot inside every one of you. Most of you inherit it from your mom. We may not express it at any given moment, but in order for an initial attraction to evolve into something deeper and more meaningful, you and your woman need to build a chemistry fertile foundation; which all begins with the building of an emotional connection with her.

Better yet, in order to take things to the physical level, you need to erupt up her inner emotional volcano, not just climb her curvaceous mountain. read more