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Why Is Your Wife Bored of Your Marriage Right Now?

Why Is Your Wife Bored of Your Marriage Right Now?

If you’re facing problems in your marriage right now, then you already know what it’s like dealing with a cold, distant wife who has no interest in talking to you or seeing you happy.
Or maybe she’s the other side of the spectrum, constantly finding something to be angry with you about? Either way, it’s not a good time for anyone involved. The question is…
What can you do to get your wife back?
Well, as you continue reading each word of the rest of this article, I’m going to be telling you what drives women away, why your attempts to get her back have so far been futile, and what you need to do to start getting your wife back today.
Sound good? Let’s go ahead and get started!
What Drives Women Away More Than Anything?
Boredom!
The fact of the matter is that when your wife feels bored, she will automatically assume that there’s something wrong in the relationship.
You can blame our crazy fast-paced 21st-century lifestyle, or you can blame feminism, or you can just blame yourself, but no matter who you blame, the fact remains that women and boredom do not mix very well at all.
And this isn’t just the type of boredom that you feel on a lazy Sunday afternoon…This is the type of boredom that makes you question your life’s choices, and wonder whether you could be doing something more. This type of boredom leads to a very potent “grass is greener on the other side” mentality, which can obviously have some very negative impact on your marriage.
Communication Becomes Inneffective; It Just Doesn’t Cut it Anymore
When you have minor marriage problems, they can most of the time be resolved through simple communication. Get everything out on the table, hash it out, kiss and make up (or maybe a little more than kiss?) and call it a day.
We talk about things, they get resolved, that’s just the way things work, right?
Well, not always.
When your wife is feeling bored, or there’s something else severely wrong with your marriage, communication stops being an effective problem-solving method. It’s not that she no longer listens to you or what you’re saying, it’s that simple words just can’t change her mind anymore.
This Is Why Marriage Counseling Frequently Doesn’t Work
Different marriage problems require different solutions, and marriage counseling is only one solution of the many available to you. However, many people turn straight marriage counseling in times of marital strife, when really this isn’t the best thing to do.
There is a reason that marriage counseling only has something like a 60% success rate, and it’s because there is a very ideal client for marriage counseling. Anyone else will generally get left by the wayside. When your wife is bored and communication has become ineffective, that is almost certainly one of those times.
Marriage counseling works best when both people clearly want to FIX the marriage, not when you’re the only one trying!
Attractions Speaks Louder Than Words
Do you like my play on words?
It’s times like this that you need something that is more powerful than simple communication. You need something that supersedes the boundaries of words to change the way your wife feels about your marriage and about you. You need to make her feel ATTRACTED to you once again.
When you can make your wife feel attracted to you, all of a sudden her thoughts of leaving will seem petty to her, and she will suddenly realize that she WANTS to stay in the marriage, and that she WANTS you.
The question is, how do you rebuild attraction?
Well, I know that I’ve left you with a couple questions here about how to get your wife back, but don’t worry! I have answers for you, too!
I’d like to start by recommending you to a free report that I put together for you… It will help you understand where your wife is coming from and hopefully give you some insights about how to turn your marriage around. Check it out:
Free Report – Are You a Good Husband?
Whatever your decide to do from here, I honestly wish you the best of luck.
Thanks for reading!