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Tips To Survive A Long Distance Marriage

Tips To Survive A Long Distance Marriage

Where there is love there is a way is what people with long distance marriage should quote. It’s not as difficult as it may seem at first and once you follow some of the researched tips and steps you will definitely see yourself on the winning edge. The fact should not be ignored that long distance marriages are depressing but to our relief there are some advantages to it as well.

“Hey you really don’t have time for me, do you?” is one of the most common lines you’ll get to hear from at least one half of the couples. But it might not be as big as you actually feel it is! Some basic tips and you’ll be all set for a smooth and happy relationship with your spouse.

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Long distant marriages definitely make you tolerant towards the mood of your spouse. Caring and valuing the relationship goes on to a much higher level when you are away from your partner.

“You are important to me and I miss you so much” is what generally couples state when they value the relationship.

So here it goes for all you people who actually feel or is not able to carry on the long distance marriage as per their spouse’s expectations:

§ Don’t try and stretch the conversation after a certain period of time especially when you have nothing else to talk about. The fact that you don’t spend time with each other and that can be covered by talking for hours are just not validated. Sharing each others feelings and thoughts is what is most important even if it takes only five minutes. Stretching the talks may lead to fights.

§ Try and share even the most ordinary details of your day. Knowing small details and mundane activities about each other will help you feel even closer to your better half.

§ Don’t pay much heed to the small things that might otherwise come between you and your partner. Make sure you don’t take out your stress or frustration on your spouse. Avoid an argument and let the stupid things go.

§ It is very important to give your spouse the benefit of doubt. If you actually feel that your partner is acting weird or cranky then try and resolve the issues by being straight forward. Give them what they want even if it means adjusting to your own desires.

§ Enjoy every moment that you spend with your spouse. Make the most out of the time you share with each other.

§ Sharing ideas of what you guys can do as a couple even while staying at a distance like planning vacations and playing online games will definitely work wonders!

Tell yourself each day- “My relationship is important and I’ll do just anything to keep it working”. The tips may or may not help you in a way that it helped others but it will definitely give you a start to a smooth relation with your better half.

Lack of trust can ruin things for the worse. Communication is the key to a successful relationship without any free-falls. It is also very important for both the spouses to believe in the commitment of marriage.