Chinese Astrology – All Out of Love
In Chinese Astrology, the birth chart of a person allows us to determine the quality of spousal relationship through an intricate destiny analysis. One of the branches of Chinese Astrology known as Four Pillars of Destiny or BaZi can reveal the luck of marriage of a person.
In Ba Zi, the secret to unveiling the marital luck is to examine the Spouse palace and the Spouse element. There are five elements and 12 animal signs in a BaZi’s birth chart. The relationship between the elements and animal signs within the Four Pillars of a BaZi’s birth chart can tell a lot about a person’s love life and relationship with people.
What happens if you have a negative interaction between the elements or animal signs in a BaZi’s birth chart? What can you do about it? In Chinese Astrology, it is believed that our luck can be altered by taking an action that preempt the likelihood of misfortune in a person’s love life.
From the ancient Chinese perspective, a prediction from a BaZi analysis is not carved in stone but we can choose to tweet luck in our favor by marrying or establishing a relationship at the right time. For example, if the chart indicate a likelihood of divorce should you choose to marry before the age of 30, then you should marry later to avoid it becoming a self-fulfilling prophesy.
However, you need to make sure there is a significant difference in age between two persons who are forming a conjugal union. According to the ancient art of Chinese Astrology, a lack of affinity for marriage can be improved if we challenge the norm. Usually, a man marries a woman who is a few years younger than him.
In order to break with the norm or convention and alter the spousal luck, a man should marry a woman who is considerably older than him or much younger than him. The age gap should be greater than 7 years or preferably more.
Another way of challenging the norm is to ensure a significant difference in status. This is another variation of not following the norm. By this, a man need not be the bread winner or the one with the intellectual prowess or financial wherewithal. For example if the man is poor, the wife can be wealthy or highly educated. On the other hand, if the man is highly educated, the wife should have a low level education.
For a woman, if she is unable to get married due to unfavorable astrological signs, she can still find love by being the other woman. A BaZi’s birth chart of a woman with poor marriage luck implies that she will find it difficult to be the first wife or the legally recognized one. In the olden times, the Chinese believed that you could have had more success if you took up the role of the second wife, mistress or a partner who was not legally recognized in marriage.
As for a man, what can he do if his BaZi’s birth chart revealed poor marriage luck? Going by the same unconventional rule, he can opt to marry a divorcee or a widow! Alternatively, he can also marry someone from a different race or culture. This is yet another variation of not following conventional rule. For example if you are a Caucasian, you can marry a Chinese, Japanese or a person of colored skin.